You Belong at the Table: How Jesus Meets Us in Our Mess and Calls Us Higher
Come as You Are, But Don’t Stay There
There’s something deeply personal about being invited to a table.
It’s more than a meal—it’s a message: “You belong here.”
But what happens when shame, failure, or unworthiness settle into our hearts?
It can be easy to pull back. We might show up, but still stand at a distance, unsure if we’re truly welcome.
Jesus changes that.
He doesn’t wait for your heart to be perfect or your record to be spotless. He meets you where you are—mess and all.
The Table Was Never for the Perfect
The night Jesus shared His last supper, He sat at the table with a betrayer, a denier, and a room full of imperfect people (Matthew 26:17–30).
And still...
He served.
He broke bread.
He gave thanks.
He welcomed them in.
The table wasn’t reserved for the worthy—it was set for the loved.
And the same is true for you.
In your insecurity.
In your fear.
In the mess you don’t want anyone to see.
Jesus says: “Come sit. I saved you a seat.”
You don’t have to earn your place. He already made room.
“But God shows His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” —Romans 5:8
Grace That Transforms
But don’t mistake His grace for indifference.
The same Jesus who welcomes you in also calls you to follow Him—to walk in His ways, to be transformed, to live like you belong at His table.
“For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age.”
—Titus 2:11–12
Grace opens the door, but love leads to change.
Yes, He meets you in the mess—but His love won’t leave you there.
The Invitation Still Stands
Jesus is still extending the same invitation today.
“Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with Me.”
—Revelation 3:20
Even now, He’s knocking—inviting you to the table.
It’s up to us to hear His voice and open the door.
Scriptures for Further Reflection
If this message resonates with you, spend some time meditating on these additional verses that speak to God’s grace and our call to grow in Him:
+ 2 Corinthians 3:18
+ Colossians 2:6–7
+ Ephesians 4:1
+ Hebrews 4:16
+ 1 Peter 2:9
Final Thoughts
Friend, your place at the table isn’t about your perfection—it’s about His love. Come as you are. But don’t miss the beauty of being changed by grace.
Meet the Author
Rasha Gardner
Rasha is a licensed mental health therapist and mama who knows that clinging to Jesus in the thick of motherhood is essential. She lives in the Midwest with her husband and children and does her best to soak up the sweet, fleeting days with her little ones.
She writes at @heldinthehard, a space (think online journal!) where gospel truth meets real life—motherhood, mental health, and all the in-betweens. You can also find her sharing mental health tips, hope, and encouragement over on her professional Instagram at @rashagardnercounseling.