God’s Power in Our Weakness: When You’re Tired of Being Strong

“But He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9, ESV)

When You’ve Been Carrying Too Much for Too Long

Some of us learned to carry too much in the name of faith. We became the peacemakers, the mediators, the strong ones. We believed it was our job to keep the church from breaking, to hold a fractured family together, or to model unshakable faith—even when we were barely holding on ourselves.

This kind of spiritual burnout can sneak up quietly and leave you feeling like you're failing at faith. But here's the truth: that weight was never yours to carry.

God’s Grace Is Enough—Even When You Feel Spiritually Exhausted

In 2 Corinthians 12, Paul pleads with God to remove a persistent struggle—what he calls a thorn in the flesh. But instead of removing it, God responds with a deeper truth: “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.”

Paul’s words offer powerful biblical encouragement. God’s answer reveals a beautiful paradox: we find strength in Christ when we admit we are weak.

In a culture like Corinth—one that prized charisma, eloquence, and personal strength—Paul deliberately downplays his own abilities. His message isn’t about performance or self-sufficiency. It’s about trusting God's strength over our own.

What “Sufficient Grace” Really Means

The Greek word for sufficient (arkeo) doesn’t just mean “barely enough.” It means fully supplied, fully capable, and completely able to sustain. God isn’t asking us to show up with flawless strength. He’s inviting us to rest in Him and rely on His power.

And the word for power (dunamis) is the root of the word dynamite. This isn’t a weak or passive strength—it’s explosive, active, life-giving. This is the power of Christ that meets us exactly where our strength runs out.

Jesus Doesn’t Just Permit Your Weakness—He Dwells in It

If you’ve felt pressure to fix everything, perform perfectly, or protect God’s reputation through your behavior, hear this clearly:

You don’t have to fix the brokenness around you.
You don’t have to carry the weight of someone else’s healing, or faith, or failure.
Jesus meets you in your weakness—not with shame, but with grace.

Letting go of control doesn’t mean giving up; it means surrendering to the One who is able. This is where healing through Christ begins.

Practical Encouragement for the Weary Heart

If you're wondering how to stop striving spiritually or feel like you're carrying too much responsibility, start here:

  • Speak this truth aloud: God’s grace is enough for me today.

  • Let go of perfection. Choose presence with God over performance.

  • Ask Him for rest—not just physical rest, but soul-deep rest.

  • Trust that God’s power works best when you’re not trying to be everything for everyone.

A Prayer for the Weary Woman

Jesus, I’ve tried to be strong for everyone else, but I’m tired. Thank You for meeting me in my weakness—not with shame, but with grace.
Remind me that it’s okay to not have it all together, because You do. Let Your power rest on me today. Amen.

You’re Not Meant to Hold It All Together

You were never meant to carry the weight of the world. Letting go isn’t failure—it’s faith. And God’s grace for the weary will always be more than enough.

So take the pressure off. Rest in God. His power will hold you.

Meet the Author
Kara Kistner

Kara is a writer, former therapeutic foster parent, and current advocate for the foster care system who creates space for women navigating faith in the harder places—church hurt, grief, transition, and spiritual healing. Her words are rooted in Scripture and steeped in honesty, gently guiding readers back to the goodness of God even when everything feels uncertain. Kara is passionate about helping others hold on to hope, honor their emotions, and rediscover Jesus outside of performance.

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