Bold Like Esther: Embracing Courage and Identity in Christ
“On the third day, Esther dressed in her royal clothing and stood in the inner courtyard of the palace facing it. The king was sitting on his royal throne in the royal courtroom, facing its entrance. As soon as the king saw Queen Esther standing in the courtyard, she gained favor with him. The king extended the gold scepter in his hand toward Esther, and she approached and touched the tip of the scepter.” —Esther 5:1–2 (CSB)
What Do You Fear?
Is it rejection? Embarrassment? Or maybe the fear of standing out when you'd rather blend in? Esther knew fear too. After learning about the plot to destroy her people, the Jews, she called for a fast—three days of prayer and preparation alongside her community.
Approaching the king without being summoned was punishable by death, and yet she chose to do it anyway. On that defining day, she put on her royal clothing—not just as queen of Persia, but as a daughter of the Most High God. In doing so, she stepped out in boldness and faith.
Clothing Herself in Courage
Esther’s act wasn’t just about political bravery. It was spiritual surrender. She shed her “Persian” identity—her safety, her comfort, her status—and stepped fully into God’s purpose, knowing it could cost her everything.
Can you imagine what she must have felt as she approached the king’s court, uninvited? Her knees may have trembled, but her faith held her upright.
Called to Rise as Daughters of the King
You and I may never face a royal throne, but we will face situations that call us to rise up in faith. God calls us to stand for truth, to live set apart, and to walk in obedience—even when it costs us our comfort.
These moments don’t just advance His Kingdom—they transform us.
Esther’s story reminds us that ordinary women can be used in extraordinary ways. She stood tall in the identity of Whose she was, and in doing so, she became bold, courageous, and unwavering in her faith.
Living Set Apart in a Blending-In World
To be different is hard. But to be different for Christ? That’s our calling.
Esther's intimacy with God changed her life. It gave her strength when fear wanted to paralyze her. It empowered her to act when silence would have been easier. Her boldness was rooted in her relationship with God—and ours can be, too.
Let us not seek to build worldly empires, but rather Kingdom ones. Let us not clothe ourselves in fear or culture, but in the righteousness and courage of Christ.
A Final Challenge
Are you willing to forsake the worldly to stand for Christ?
Are you building a Kingdom legacy—or a worldly empire?These are questions worth sitting with.
Scriptures to Reflect On:
1 Samuel 16:7 – “...The Lord does not see as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”
John 10:10 – “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.”
2 Corinthians 9:8 – “And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times... you will abound in every good work.”
1 Peter 2:9 – “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession...”
Meet the Author
Sharon Milius
Sharon and her husband, Chad, reside in Durant, Oklahoma. As a devoted homemaker, she cherishes her quiet time with the Lord, spending hours each morning in His Word—a sacred time she fiercely protects. Sharon has a deep desire to write in a way that glorifies the Lord, whether through a book, a Bible study, or both, and she sees this opportunity as a step in that direction.
Beyond writing, Sharon enjoys gardening, walking, helping her husband on the ranch, and spending time with her two beloved Border Collies. She also finds great joy in traveling to visit their adult children, fellowshipping with friends to grow in Christ together, and, of course, savoring a good cup of coffee. A simple pleasure she delights in is hanging laundry on the clothesline on a bright, sunny day.
Sharon is incredibly grateful for the opportunity to serve alongside Daughter of Delight in bringing glory to God and is excited for the journey ahead.
