When He Doesn’t Intervene: Trusting the God Who Holds Us Through Every Storm
Sometimes God parts the waters, and sometimes He calls us to walk straight through them.
Sometimes He calms the storm, and sometimes the storm keeps raging while He steadies us in the boat.
He is the same God in both stories.
The same God who spoke light into darkness in Genesis 1 still holds authority over every wave that rises against us. In Scripture, Jesus demonstrates this power when He rebukes the wind and waves in Mark 4, proving that even creation responds to His voice. Yet the Bible also shows moments when God does not remove the storm but remains present within it, strengthening His people through it, such as Paul’s suffering in 2 Corinthians 12.
Sometimes His greatest mercy is not found in the way He delivers us but in how He develops us.
The Moments We Love: When God Intervenes Clearly
We love the moments when God steps in and everything changes.
When the diagnosis disappears. When the prodigal returns. When the miracle breaks through and the waiting suddenly makes sense.
These moments remind us of God’s power, His compassion, and His ability to transform anything. Scripture is full of stories where God intervened dramatically: the parting of the Red Sea, the healing of the blind, the raising of Lazarus. These miracles reveal His authority and His heart to save.
The Moments That Hurt: When He Does Not
But there are other moments that are harder to talk about. The quiet, aching ones.
The times when the mountain does not move. The prayer seems unanswered. The story unfolds differently than we desperately hoped it would.
These moments do not mean God has forgotten us. Throughout Scripture, God repeatedly reminds His people that He is near to the brokenhearted and attentive to their cries. Psalm 34:18 affirms that He is close to those who are crushed in spirit, even when circumstances remain unchanged.
His purpose runs deeper than our comfort. He is still the God who intervenes, but sometimes the miracle is not found in what He stops. Sometimes the miracle is found in what He sustains.
When He Does Not Change the Outcome
When God does not step in the way we prayed He would, He begins a different kind of work.
He strengthens what was trembling. He refines what was restless. He redeems what was broken.
He still parts seas, but sometimes the deliverance looks like endurance. Sometimes it looks like courage. Sometimes it looks like faith that holds on even when the waves rise higher.
This is the testimony of countless believers in Scripture. Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego declared that God could save them, but even if He did not, they would trust Him. Paul learned to rejoice in weakness because God’s power was made perfect in it. These are not stories of abandonment. They are stories of sustaining grace.
Even when He does not intervene the way we prayed, He is still writing redemption into the story.
The Truth We Anchor To
Because He is still good. He is still faithful. He is still God.
Isaiah 43:2 reminds us, “When you pass through the waters, I will be with you, and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you.” God does not promise we will never face deep waters. He promises we will never face them alone.
His presence is the miracle.
A Simple Prayer
Lord, when You do not intervene the way I hoped, help me remember You are still here, working, holding, refining. Teach me to trust that You are just as present in the silence as You are in the miracle. Strengthen me to walk through the waters with courage, knowing You are the One who parts them and the One who carries me when they rise. Amen.
Meet the Author
Amy Bunting
Amy is a sinner saved by grace, learning to live with joy even when life is hard. She’s been married to Bradley for nearly 25 years and is the mother of four — with one still (barely) in the nest.
Her family has walked through deep valleys, including her daughter’s chronic illness. Through it all, Amy has come to know the peace and faithfulness of Jesus in a deeply personal way as she learns to surrender.
She writes to offer the same hope and encouragement she’s received — quiet reminders that we are not alone, and that God is still good.
When she’s not writing, Amy teaches second grade! She hopes her students catch a glimpse of Jesus as she helps them to feel seen and loved.
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